Twenty-Third Sunday in Ordinary Time
“Whatever you bind on earth shall be
bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in
heaven.” This is not the first time we
have heard this expression from Jesus.
In fact, we heard it only recently, two weeks ago, when (two chapters earlier
in Matthew’s Gospel) after Peter had professed Jesus to be the Christ, Jesus
said to him: “You are Peter, and upon
this rock I will build my church, and the gates of the netherworld shall not
prevail against it. I will give you the
keys to the kingdom of heaven. Whatever
you bind on earth shall be bound in heaven; and whatever you loose on earth
shall be loosed in heaven.” In this
exchange it is clear that our Lord was conferring upon Peter a special
authority as head of the Apostles, the “rock” upon which He would build His
Church. But why does Jesus repeat this
phrase here?
It
notes at the beginning of the passage that we heard today that Jesus was
addressing “his disciples,” and therefore not just Peter on this occasion.
Also, before when Jesus had said this to Peter, the verbs to bind and to
loose in the original Greek of Matthew’s Gospel were in the second person
singular, in other words, “Whatever you
[alone, Peter] bind on earth shall be bound in heaven; and whatever you [alone, Peter] loose on earth shall
be loosed in heaven.” But now when we see this phrase, these verbs
to bind and to loose are in the second person plural, in other words, “Whatever you [all] bind on earth shall be bound in heaven, and whatever you [all] loose on earth shall be loosed in
heaven.” So, all of this would indicate
that the authority that had been given to Peter alone two chapters earlier is
now being conferred, in a secondary way, upon the other eleven. Nothing is being taken away from Peter’s
primacy, but now the other Apostles are given a share in the “power of the
keys,” in this ministry of binding and loosing.
But
I would like to suggest that this “power of the keys” may be extended even
further, though again without in any way taking away from that special and
particular authority granted to Peter and the other Apostles. I believe that this power to bind and to
loose is something in which all
Christians participate, albeit in a different way and to a different
degree. And I don’t think that I am too
far off base in saying this. St.
Augustine, for one, speaks about this same concept and I know that one of my professors
in seminary wrote his doctoral dissertation on this very idea. So, again, I don’t think this is too much of
a stretch.
So,
how is it that we (all of us)
participate in this “power of the keys,” this power to bind and to loose. I would suggest that we participate in this
through forgiveness. When someone has wronged us and we fail to
forgive that person from the heart, then in a sense we hold that person bound. More than this, when we fail to forgive
someone who has wronged us we hold ourselves bound. We know this from our own experience. We know that when we hold a grudge, when we
hold on to resentment, when we fail to forgive our brother or sister, we are
fixated on the harm that they have done us.
We feel suffocated. And so, in
our unwillingness to forgive we know what it means to hold someone bound and to
be bound ourselves.
But
we can also participate in the power to loose
that is conferred upon the disciples today in the Gospel, and we do this
through forgiveness. When we forgive
someone who has wronged us from the heart, the ill thoughts and anxiety that
once possessed us begin to melt away. We
liberate our sisters and brothers from our bitter thoughts and, more than this,
we liberate ourselves. We experience
once more that true freedom of the sons and daughters of God mentioned in our
opening prayer.
Of
course, the only way to grow in this ability to forgive, to loose others and
ourselves, is simply by doing it. Many
times people who are struggling to forgive someone will say, “Maybe someday,
when enough time has passed and I have come to terms with the hurt I have
experienced…maybe then I will be able to forgive.” But I always tell them that day may never come – either because the hurt may
never quite go away or because we could be called from this life at any time. And so, we have to begin with forgiveness, even if it is through gritted teeth, even if
it less than perfect to start. We have
to say the words and make that prayer, “Lord, I forgive them.” And if someone is waiting to hear us say it,
we need to tell that person, “I forgive you.”
Another
way that we can grow in our ability to loose, to set ourselves and others free
is by asking forgiveness ourselves.
Certainly we should ask the forgiveness of those we have offended, but
we should also ask the forgiveness of God, and one of the privileged ways that
we can do this as Catholics is in the Sacrament of Reconciliation. In this
sacrament we see and experience for ourselves how mercifully God deals with us,
and we are humbled, and this in turn helps us to be merciful to others. If we want to a good forgivers, then I think
we must first become a good penitents.
And that is hard to do if the sacrament is something that we do only
once in a very great while. For this
reason, we have extended the opportunities for the Sacrament of Reconciliation
here at Chapel. It’s available every day
starting forty-five minutes before daily Mass (Monday through Friday) except on
those few occasions when I have to be away from campus.
Perhaps
second only to the words of consecration at Mass, one of my favorite things I
get to say as a priest are the words of absolution in the Sacrament of
Reconciliation: “I absolve you from your
sins.” Of course, I have heard these
words many times from “the other side of the screen,” and so the power of these
words is never lost on me when I say them to another.
There
is one other way that I would suggest to you that we participate in the “power
of the keys.” And this is through
gentle, but firm correction of our brothers and sisters when they have done
wrong. You see, we can also hold others bound
in their sin by our silence, by our implied consent to what they are
doing. But we can set them free from
their sin if we gently point out to them the error of their ways and show them
instead the path of virtue. It is this
sort of binding and loosing that we hear about in our first
reading, from the Prophet Ezekiel. God
says to Ezekiel, “You…I have appointed watchman for the house of Israel; when
you hear me say anything, you shall warn them for me…If I tell the wicked, ‘O
wicked one, you shall surely die,’ and you do not speak out to dissuade the
wicked from this way, the wicked shall die for his guilt, but I will hold you responsible.”
We are called, as brothers and
sisters in the Lord, to (when necessary) correct each other’s faults. And I say this with a little timidity because
I know well that I have many faults that need correcting, so this homily might
come back to bite me. But if it makes me
a better person, a better Christian, a better priest, then not only should I
not run from this kind of correction, but I should embrace it, welcome it, seek
it out even.
Now,
having said all of this, there is a way to give correction so that it does not
become nitpicking, fault-finding, tattle-tailing or just self-righteous
bullying. There is a “protocol” for
correction, and this is what Jesus gives us in the first part of the Gospel
today. When we have a problem with
someone, he says we should first take it to that person directly, and I might
add privately. If this fails, then “take one or two others
along with you.” Today we might call
this an “intervention.” Finally, if all
else fails, bring it to the church—but always with a mind to reconciliation. And when even this fails, Jesus says, “treat
[that person] as you would a Gentile or a tax collector.” But how did Jesus treat Gentiles and tax
collectors? Remember this is Matthew the tax collector’s Gospel. Jesus always treated them with compassion and
with great patience. We cannot and
should not condone a person’s behavior who has done wrong, but we must always love them. If we would follow this protocol, I think
that most of the time we would never have to go further than the first
step. So, there’s always a time, a place
and way.
Most
importantly, any correction that we would offer must always be carried out in a spirit of true charity—in other words,
not because we want to feel better about ourselves, not so that we can prove
that we were right, not so that we can rub another person’s face in it; never to
tear down, but always to build up—because we love that person and we want the
highest and the best thing for them. St.
Thomas Aquinas defined love as “willing the good of the other.” And so, this should be our motivation in any
correction we might offer. St. Paul
couldn’t have aid said it any more clearly:
“Owe nothing to anyone, except to
love one another.”
I know I’ve thrown a lot at you
today, but I urge you to really consider these things this week. Think about how you participate in the “power
of the keys,” how you bind and how
you loose in your relationships,
either through forgiveness or lack of forgiveness, in giving and in taking
loving correction, knowing that in some way “whatever you bind on earth shall
be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth shall be loosed in heaven.”